Elder abuse has become a growing issue across both Australian and international societies and unlike certain forms of abuse, it can be difficult to both identify and resolve.
Older Australians are living longer and longer and as we transition through the largest ever wealth transfer from older Australians to their adult children, it’s more important than ever to understand what elder abuse is, how it happens, and what we can do to stop it.
What Is Elder Abuse?
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), elder abuse is “a single, or repeated act, or lack of appropriate action, occurring within any relationship where there is an expectation of trust, which causes harm or distress to an older person.”
Mary-Ann De Mestre, from M De Mestre Lawyers explains that “Elder abuse can take many forms—from physical or emotional harm to neglect or financial exploitation—and can happen in any setting where an older person is dependent on others for care or support”.
How Widespread Is Elder Abuse?
Globally, about 1 in 6 people aged 60 and over have experienced some form of abuse in the past year. In care facilities, the rates are even higher: 2 out of 3 staff members admitted to committing abuse, suggesting the issue is both widespread and underreported.
Like many forms of abuse, it is often perpetrated by people known to the victim and it may (or may not) come as a surprise that adult children were the most common perpetrators.
Why Is Elder Abuse Increasing?
“Several factors are contributing to the rising cases of elder abuse, and a major reason is the changing dynamic around ageing and wealth. As life expectancy increases, older adults are living longer—and sometimes with declining physical or cognitive health—while their children may become impatient waiting for inheritances”, notes Mary-Ann.
This situation is known as “inheritance impatience” and it’s leading to more cases of financial manipulation, coercion, and even outright theft, with the National Elder Abuse phone line showing a 36% increase in calls between July 2023 and May 2024, highlighting the urgent need to raise awareness and provide support.
What Can Be Done?
Similar to other forms of abuse, many instances aren’t reported with only 1 in 3 people who experienced abuse reaching out for help—most often to family, friends, or their GP.
Helplines and professional services are used less frequently, perhaps due to fear, shame, or a lack of awareness about available support.
The good news is that 82% of those who did experience abuse took steps to stop it, whether by confronting the abuser, breaking contact, or seeking legal or professional help.
How You Can Help
We all have a role to play in protecting older people in our communities. Here are a few simple things you can do:
· Check in regularly with older family members, friends, or neighbours.
· Watch for warning signs, like sudden changes in behaviour, unexplained injuries, or missing money.
· Speak up if you suspect abuse, contact a helpline, GP, local support service or seek legal and financial advice.
· Educate yourself and others about elder abuse and how to prevent it.
Elder abuse can happen to anyone, but it’s often hidden in silence. By being informed, supportive, and proactive, we can make a real difference in the lives of older people—and help build a safer, more respectful society for all.
